Anonymous asked: i broke up with my ex boyfriend in september of last year because he was going away to school and i didn't want a longterm relationship and he wanted to end things anyways because he couldn't deal with not seeing me everyday. i've been with my current boyfriend for just over two months, but i still think about my ex a lot. i am extremely happy with my current boyfriend, though; the happiest i've been in years. i just don't know how to stop thinking about my ex :/

Probably you’re not over him yet. It seems like you got in a new relationship not after you borke up with your ex. I think that’s the problem. Personally I think you’ve got to have time to get over a person and time for yourself after getting into a new relationship, but maybe that’s just me. 

I would wait and be honest with myself, and it seems like you still have feelings for your ex, and sometimes trying to hide those feelings being with someone new just messes things up. Be completely honest with yourself and then figure out. Listen to your heart; it will work, promise.

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